Just yelling at the "do this or thats" of Google and many other internet things. You know how they always pop up and say "You can do this with that!" and such? Annoying.
Anyway, I want to write something today, because I haven't in a very long time. Maybe that is because I was planning a very successful wedding! Woot! I am now a MARRIED woman! My husband is amazing. He is phenomenal! I am so lucky to be married to this wonderful man!
I haven't written anything else in a while either. But now with the planning done, I intend to pick it up once more. Though typing with the fake nails I got for the wedding is proving very difficult!
So anyway, a few thoughts on weddings. First, go ahead and pay attention to every little detail.....IF you can remember that they don't matter as much as the fact that you are getting married. What, you may ask? I mean that if you want every little detail perfect, go ahead and plan every little detail. Just remember that if it doesn't turn out exactly as you wanted, it may be better!
I had a few things go wrong. I could have flipped out but didn't. Save your "bridezilla" moments for the important things. Like when the hotel has put all the groomsmen next to your room and they're up at 1am going in and out of their room, making noise and talking with a loud TV. Feel free to send a nasty text message to your Best Man at this point who, as such a good friend, will understand and get them to STFU!
OR, his phone will have died and they will have magically shut up anyway. He will then, in great humor, read the text message once his phone has recharged and proceed to laugh his rear end off.
Make sure that everyone knows there are certain things that should and should NOT be told to the bride. On the list of things to tell her, CHANGES in anything. Do not surprise her with changes. Would you rather have a bridezilla rant on you or in public?
Avoid telling her any negative comments until after the wedding. Usually it is a good idea to keep most of these to yourself anyway. I didn't really have any negative comments, but a couple of things were said and told to me at the wrong time. It is a very emotional time for a bride. You never know what is going to bother or not.
As the bride, BE MELLOW! Let things go and trust everyone to do what they are going to do! Nothing ever turns out like it does in your head! It turns out BETTER! I trusted my guys to get their tuxs, they did. The same for my girls and their dresses. I trusted the vendors to do their jobs, and they did, so much better than what I imagined!
At any rate, the important thing is now...I am a wife. I am wife to the most loving, caring, and sweet husband anyone could ask for.
The End
